Beach breeze
I find myself back at the beach. The beaches all have the same feel on the eastern seabord, this Jersey beach and the ones in Maryland and Delaware I grew up going to, the same pizza joints and boardwalks and salt-sea smell laced with danger and possibility, the smell wafting into the window in the room at Ocean City’s Wellington Motel where I lost my virginity, a room that came equipped with a mirror that I consulted while Wendy, whom I had met the day before and was an aspiring secretary from Pennsylvania who had tried all kinds of drugs and would say “cha” to everything for some reason that made a little more sense at the time, but not much, was in the shower, as if I were looking at an organism that had metamorphosed from juvenile to adult in the span of a minute.
"Down on the boardwalk they're gettin' ready for a fight," sang Springsteen. I squat on the boardwalk and see the Asbury Park Press sings today of gun murder, not fists. And the governor in an outquote saying “de minimis,” perhaps using Latin to demonstrate full recovery of his brain after the car accident. A black woman beside me squats over a two-foot-high parking meter, as if trying to insert it, to the delight of her friends.
I don’t remember ever seeing a non-white person on the boardwalks of my youth, although I’m sure I did. Today, there’s everyone. A Chinese kid screams in my ear so loud that I stand up from my squat. Four Russians dribble a soccer ball up the boardwalk. A Central American family throws a volleyball back and forth in the sand.
A police car passes slowly but there’s nothing it can do about the ancient story unfolding beside me, the sibling power struggle. “Dad says we have to go home now,” a big brother yells down to the sand, but the little brother refuses to budge. Big calls mom on his cell: “Sam’s being Sam. He’s walking to the shore now.” His face filled with loathing for the creature half his size.
A girl passes me on a green bicycle, her body so perfect I immediately think “European.” She actually checks me out then her head snaps back forward at the sight of my face, as if she’s shy or I’m a monster. Perhaps it’s my three-quarter-full beard.
I pass by two teens playing baseball catch, a boy and girl, perhaps siblings. Her body launches a choir of angels, and I almost ask if I can play. I remember how I hated it when guys hit on my sister, like the time two boys tossed a football into the sand near our towels just so they could talk to her. And she actually went swimming with the guy, whose name I can almost remember. I wanted to shout, “Didn’t you see what he did? It was a trick!” This memory has nothing to do with why I don’t sit on the bench to look at this girl jumping around, to see exactly how high her boy shorts go in the back. Instead it is the sense that with my three-quarters beard and awkward solitary demeanor I might be considered one of the sexual predators Rick and I dreaded.
The European passes me again on her green bicycle and I briefly consider sprinting after her, though I know my endurance won’t hold out. Instead I walk barefoot in the sand. A young couple I assume to be from the city is collecting trash and putting it in a barrel. I see tags from new clothing, and I wonder who thinks it’s okay to take the shirt and toss the tags onto the sand, my mind offering its recurrent bait on humanity, on why humans are destined to destroy everything they touch, but I don’t take it. It’s a lot cleaner than
What happens to the perceptual mind as we age? Rick and I took a return trip to the beach a few summers later. This time we had an acquaintance named Boisseau who acted like a friend by letting us stay with him. He was a few years older. We sat and watched while these men and women in their 20s talked about things like home improvements. One woman said, “Oh, he watches public television? I respect anyone who watches public television.” Then they went on talking about nothing for hours. “Rick,” I said, “We gotta get outta here. And if you ever see me talking like that, please put me out of my misery.”
It was like we were peering into the future, and it was a horrifying picture. Today I stood in the front yard and listened to the neighbor talk about the details of his roofing project. The words all started to run together, although by this age I had had a roof put on myself and so knew enough to keep the conversation going. Why was I keeping it going? There was the character interest, to be sure, the vague urge to see how this crazy guy’s mind worked. But that wasn’t enough to stay this long. Ira Glass popped into my head. Not because I admire him, but because as a busy person he would have to extricate himself. What would he do? I was a busy person, and I was having exactly the conversation I vowed never to have in my life. I was waiting for him to end it, but he never would. I was like the kid being talked into the beach trailer, except that this wasn’t a trailer of sexual predation but a trailer of suburban void. Equally fearsome, since they both meant a form of death.
“Hey, I should get going,” I said. “The sun’s going down and I gotta get over to the beach.”
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